Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Loveship- a new relation for new generation

Friends are a bunch of people roaming together, making fun and enjoying their life to fullest.Most of us have been through this time in our high school or college days.This relation, unique in its existence, matters a lot in everyone's life.No formalities, no tension. Gigling, pulling each others leg, drinking in same glass,eating each others share and a lot more.This is the best part of our life and that's why always remembered and cherished.

But new generation is living a different relationship. Visit any college and you will observe, people now like to be in pairs instead of groups.Their mentality has changed.This is not only happening in metro cities but in the small cities too. You will not take much time to deduce that most of the pairs are hetrosexual. They stroll around holding each other's hand (like they are one soul).They behave like lovers,looking into each others eyes, giving expensive gifts and eating every new cuisine.But this is not LOVE rather I would say, it's Loveship(This term is not coined by me) since there is no commitment from either side and they remain with each other as long as they don't find anyone better.Every month they change their partners and start again with a new beginning, again singing a love song from some new romantic film, making fake promises which they both know in advance but just ignore to realise. And the life goes on...


Well I am not against any such relationship rather concerned about the coming generation as it is going to make them mature before time with all worries of such relations. Loveship or friendship, which is better? I am not the one to answer this question .This is what one has to ask to himself and choose accordingly.